As we grow older we want to maintain our health and minimize risks for injury. This is a constant balancing act in terms of decision making. How do we maintain dignity and respect loved one's wishes while keeping them safe. Sometimes people are resistant to change and do not want to adapt their lifestyle or home environment. I hear family members often say: "She will never allow me to change that" "The rugs will need to stay in place" "He will be very upset if I get rid o